Hey, super quick question:
Why do amazing, intelligent, gifted individuals tend to hide?
Why do they attract friendships in their lives that drain them at an exponential level?
Why do they not have the income, influence and fulfil their full potential?
Why do they have careers that don't fulfil them in the way that they deserve?
Many will tell you it's a worth issue.
I don't agree
It's not a worth issue. It's a way of SURVIVAL
Survival mode is an adaptive response to help us survive danger and stress. It's dangerous and stressful to not fit in.
You dim to fit in to survive.
dim to fit in because we live in a culture that has taught you to
attach labels to those who don't 'fall in line' as aggressive...
Loud and obnoxious.
You dim to fit in because we're taught you that you need to behave in a certain way to make others feel good.
You dim to fit in because we're taught to adapt or 'code switch' to keep our job's, social circles and level of lifestyle.
You dim to fit in because we're taught to go along with the behaviours of the majority because you're only the 'minority'.
been doing this for most of your life that it's become habitual. Yet your subconscious beliefs are driving your "fit in patterns".
a behavioural level if you don't act as you can be unapologetically
visible & shine without dimming to fit in then it doesn't matter how
many mindset shifts you make - you're not going to see lifelong changes
if you keep falling back into the fit in the pattern of behaviour. You will
always find another reason to bite your tongue, code switch, basically
contract into old behaviours so you dim to fit in again.
your patterns of behaviour are key. The piece that most of the clients miss before working with me is being equipped with tools on a mental,
emotional, behavioural and energetic level to shift their state.
constant labelling, code-switching, self-doubt, external validation by
others; it changes when you unapologetically shine while feeling like
you fit in on that deep cellular level.
are some of the work that I do with my 1:1 clients in my 3 month
coaching package for professionals who have trauma to heal around being
seen & heard unapologetically due to being dyslexic, dyspraxic, AD(H)D or autistic AKA neurodiverse.
help them to shift those "fitting in" patterns that up until now have been
used for their survival. Are you ready to shift out of your
lifetime pattern of the labels, code-switching, external validation, and